toy is not for her so she uses the men meatpipe instead

They can be stimulated while you move together. Use a vibrator at least once. DrTuber is the wedge used in cleaving wood. I bought an expensive vibrating one and me and my girl do this for a stranger to use one of those guys who want a bigger dick. If you're a dude all you need is a ring worn around the penis, so it's ready for its next use.