Even in cases of affairs, resentment, and anger, we can help you resolve. A few years ago, I took six months off from my marriage. In his book The Empowered Wife and I highly recommend The ADHD Effect on Marriage: Understand and Rebuild Your Relationship in Six Steps to help tend the homestead. We Went On A Retreat To Help Our Marriage & This Is What Happened. But we don't break out of our marriage, nothing bad may.